Hi to all who replied to my post of late. Well i thought things were not to bad between me and my other half ,but i was wrong! I have tried to be there for him as well, but the odd sarcastic remark comes out, like she should just have to get on with things like we had to, when we had our children. And this weekend i did not like to say that my daughter was over here for the day so when he came round for the weekend, after a ,little while he decided to go home and he has texted me to say he has written me a letter, and i now await a letter from him probally to tell me that i have been neglecting him! I wish i could cut my self in two and be the perfect girlfriend and supernan but it is so hard. I know that he wants someone to go abroad with for a few weeks,
go away weekends, like a lot of retired people do. But i am so torn. Dont get me wrong it is hard sometimes looking after my grandchildren, but i want to be there for them. Maybe my role is just to be a nannie . Am feeling a bit down today.