I agree, specki. Perhaps this man's wife was utterly fed-up with his demands and also he may never have made the effort to make her happy in that part of their relationship. Obviously, he's not going to mention that in his letter on that page. He does seem to be concerned that he's a bit 'under-endowed', however.....and that this may let him down at a swingers' session (!) Oh dear, no wonder his wife gave up on him. Not because he was under-endowed, of course - but if he has leanings towards joining swingers' clubs, well......it's a wonder she's still with him at all!