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NanKate Tue 06-Oct-15 07:35:57

On Sunday we went to a NT property for a lovely walk through the grounds to look at the trees beginning to turn, it was wonderful.

We stopped at the cafe for coffee and cake. The young man serving us was very pleasant and polite but when I looked down I could see he had dirty finger nails. It made me feel sick when he touched the cup. I must be fair he looked clean and had clean hands, but those nails yuk !

I filled in the comment form and handed it in before I left. No doubt I will get the same sort of washy washy reply from the NT as I did last time I made a complaint.

Indinana Wed 07-Oct-15 19:50:29

Good grief! A feud? With the lovely jinglbells of all people? What on earth are you talking about Casawan? confused

There was a bit of a spat between me and Anniebach earlier, but heavens above, it was nothing serious. Certainly not a feud shock. Just a bit of healthy disagreement, misunderstanding, call it what you like.

I can assure you I've never had a feud with anyone. I wouldn't know how I could learn though

And thank you jings I love you too [heart emoticon] smile

rosesarered Wed 07-Oct-15 19:52:42

Let's all clap our ( clean) hands, and say amen to that Indinana.

Indinana Wed 07-Oct-15 19:54:21

grin roses

Anya Wed 07-Oct-15 20:48:51

And throw vital germ-free kisses?

Though after reading this thread I am now posting on my iPad wearing surgical gloves.

Anya Wed 07-Oct-15 21:01:45

Virtual not vital....blame the gloves.

rosequartz Wed 07-Oct-15 23:37:17

I do wear those gloves when I handle meat ....

(am I weird?)

Nelliemoser Wed 07-Oct-15 23:45:32

What the heck is this thread all about now????
grin
I never realised so many people were quite so germ phobic. How have I survived all these years without worrying.

Shula Thu 08-Oct-15 05:46:20

If I am put off by people serving me with dirty hands I always change my orders.

seacliff Thu 08-Oct-15 07:15:44

I'm feeling quite paranoid now - I never give these things a thought - apart from avoiding touching loo door on way out if it looks a rather grubby place.

However, we recently got 2 rescue kittens and have found they have a nasty parasite infection (giardia) which is apparently very catching and hard to kill. So wish I could "see" the germs - am washing everthing with bleach and getting steam cleaner out for first time in ages.

hildajenniJ Thu 08-Oct-15 08:46:34

The saying goes, "a man has to eat a peck of dirt before he dies". You need a few bacteria to keep your immune system on it's toes. I used to be a nurse but I never worry about cleanliness. Good hand hygeine is all you need.

Greyduster Thu 08-Oct-15 09:06:24

I don't regard myself as particularly germ phobic (in spite of posts above); I've cleaned up cat poo from the garden, dog poo from where one or other of us has inadvertently stepped in it; but when I took my sister in law's dog for a walk while she was staying with us recently, and had to clean up after her, I found the whole thing particularly distasteful. Despite the kitchen paper and poo bags and all the rest of it, I managed to get some on my hands and that, and the fact of having to carry it home (no bins) rather tipped me over the edge! I spent ages in the downstairs loo scrubbing my hands and my nails and then put Dettol spray on them. I know; complete wimp! For the avoidance of any doubt, I do like dogs.

TriciaF Thu 08-Oct-15 09:09:46

Hildajenni - I was going to mention that about your immune system needing a few bacteria too.
But handwashing is important.
Another thing to worry about - my friend had a letter from the local hospital warning that a worker in the Dept. where she had recently been seen has been found to have scabies shock Look out for an itchy rash.
Evidently there's a lot of it about here.

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 08-Oct-15 09:54:06

I am only germ phobic in a narrow sort of way. I can happily pick up a fallen apple in the garden and eat it after only a cursory rub on my sleeve, sometimes with soil encrusted hands. And I eat the dampers GS makes for me in his garden - definitely no handwashing there.

It's postly public loos with me. It could spring from my natural underlying dislike of the human race.

Katek Thu 08-Oct-15 10:29:04

I'm with you on public loos Jingl-always open doors with sleeve or tissue and then use hand sanitiser outside the loo. Door handles are no go area for me.

Stansgran Thu 08-Oct-15 11:48:59

I had to go for a pre op educational session at the local hospital yesterday.The occupational therapist showed us how to put on socks with a plastic thingummy. She put them on over socks the soles of which were not very clean at all. At that time in the morning there was no excuse for dirty socks and I can't imagine her having padded around the corridors in stockinged feet as an excuse. She's going to come and assess my home .hmmmm. I'm with JBF
I wish I loved the Human Race;
I wish I loved its silly face;
I wish I liked the way it walks;
I wish I liked the way it talks;
And when I'm introduced to one,
I wish I thought "What Jolly Fun!"

Professor Sir Walter Alexander Raleigh (1861-1922)

Alea Thu 08-Oct-15 11:56:15

Just a note on dog poo scooping shock
Some poo bags are titchy and just useless, I use nappy sacks which of course have the nice little handles to tie the doings up. I put my hand right inside the bag so that it is inside out over my hand up to my wrist) pick up the offending item, turn bag right way round, then tie the handles. Even in the pitch dark it never rarely fails. Another idea might be to have a few lightweight disposable gloves (like NHS use) and after you dump the poo bag, bin the glove in a regular litter bin, peeling it off inside out in case there are traces on the outside.
Final observation, rather like nappies, one's own baby DC and DGC's nappy changing, no prob, but other babies? Maybe. In the same way I feel no revulsion at clearing up after Grace or my granddog, but "strange" dog poo on shoes? Eurgh!!!!

Indinana Thu 08-Oct-15 14:16:49

Alea you have just described exactly how my DH and I both bag up dog poo, right down to using disposable gloves! And I feel exactly the same about our family dogs as opposed to other dogs smile

rosequartz Thu 08-Oct-15 14:48:32

At least many dog owners scoop the poop (but not all, there is one that haunts the playground where the DGC like to play angry)

It's the cats that roam and use everyone else's gardens as their personal loo and the smell ..... ugh!

Greyduster Thu 08-Oct-15 17:37:56

I did pick it up in exactly the way you described and as for the latex gloves - they were in my pocket but I forgot about them. Problem is the bloomin' hound doesn't stay in one place and do her business, she wanders about, cr*****g as she goes! Absolutely no thanks! I went to a small fishery today which has a cafe. We have been before, and DH has always gone and got the coffees and bacon sandwiches. Today, I went - and came back empty handed. I took one look at the washing up facilities and bolted! Needless to say they don't appear to have been awarded a health and hygiene certificate!

Jaxie Thu 08-Oct-15 20:12:25

What about checkout operators in food stores licking their fingers in order to separate plastic carrier bags?

rosequartz Thu 08-Oct-15 20:14:40

Or telling you that have a dreadful cold as they pass your food through. hmm

posie Thu 08-Oct-15 20:34:42

The cold that the checkout operators probably caught of the customers giving them the £10/20 note that they were just holding in their mouth while they packed their shopping! yuck!

Ana Thu 08-Oct-15 20:50:35

I must admit I do hate that finger-licking to separate bags - shouldn't be allowed!

rosesarered Thu 08-Oct-15 20:57:30

It's finger lickin' good!

rosesarered Thu 08-Oct-15 20:58:23

Oh well, none of us have died from poisoning( so far)