I'm actually truly shocked by the number of ladies on here saying that their beloved daughters behave so badly towards their mothers, and it does seem to be most often towards the mother! The one heart warming thing about this whole thread is that in the main everyone is caring and supportive of the others, especially the one who is suffering and starts the thread. There are perhaps a couple of judgemental posts, but thankfully these are few.
I do wonder how we have managed to produce adults who are, at least sometimes, so unkind towards their mothers, whilst holding down responsible jobs, running homes, caring for children etc. My DH says it's the way society, technology, the way of life, it has changed. Younger people are used to instant gratification now, whilst we had to wait. Also, I never dared speak back to my parents, I would have been in serious trouble if I had. We weren't given the choices they've had, we had less to choose from, they have a whole world with the internet. I don't know, I just wonder. And why does it seem so often to be the girls?
What I do know is that when a much loved child abuses a parent, it hurts.