It might be a good idea to start contact with the young lady now . She needs to feel that you are concerned and caring about her during her pregnancy and the birth, otherwise she will feel that you are just after the baby. The path to your grandchild is always going to be through the mother. Start now with perhaps a few cards posted to her. Send flowers through the post. These actions are the initial steps. Make her the focus of your attention and the relationship will then be in place before the birth and you cannot be accused of just having interest in the baby and not bothering with her. Above all treat her with respect even though you may feel it is not due. Treat as you would any welcome daughter in law. Your son has to make his own decisions about his relationship with her and the baby and you make yours separately . Obviously support your son but he is unfair to you if he thinks you will sacrifice a grandchild just because he has opted out. You may be the bridge that he will be grateful for if he wants to see the child in the future.
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