Pittcity, you have stolen that thought straight out of my head lol!
To be honest though, life is too short to be sweating about this sort of stuff. Either carry on what you have always done or just stop washing his clothes. And as for his dirty dishes, I never understand why people rinse their plates ect before putting them into the dishwasher unless they are going to be sitting there for hours/days before switching it on.
Water Pollution -“ A National Disgrace”? A case for renationalisation?