Grandad, no one can know whether the OP husband is considerate or not from the minimal information she has revealed on this thread. The dynamics of other people's relationships are often a mystery. It's a fact that some people, when they live together (that's men and women) rub each other up the wrong way and it's not for us to make a judgement on what is after all a facet of human nature. I can't speak for her, but like a lot of posts on GN she has merely posted in exasperation, it happens all the time, not necessarily about partners, sometimes it's about neighbours, friends, children, parents even our lovely grandchildren.
Having two sons, I would concede that there can be a negativity towards men at times what springs to mind particularly is how the occasional advertisement has been skewed to make men look stupid, but I have to echo PECS's comment, "Get a Grip" that is nothing compared to the tidal wave of verbal/physical bashing that women have had to put up with and still do. Two wrongs don't make a right but stalking the threads of GN with the sole purpose of seeking out examples of everyday domestic gripes doesn't make the poster, or those who join in with similar moans, out and out misandrist/s
Returning to the original thread, my dear little 4 year old grandson had one of his very occasional accidents and wet the bed on Saturday night when he was staying with us, I did have a protective sheet being an ex Brownie I like to live up to the motto "Be Prepared" Although my observations tell me that such accidents or more likely with boys, having had two of them, if my memory serves me well, than it did with my gd. Well in my world anyway. Am I allowed to say that I wonder
Anyway bringing together the two main themes of the thread, laundering bed linen and misandry, I find the best thing to do with wee wee on the sheets is get them into the washing machine pronto. This can be done by either the male or female of the house, on this occasion it was me, but just let me say that my husband is equally good at dealing with such a task