Not all the posts that are complained about get deleted, notentirelyallhere. The person on moderator duty at GN looks at them first. Some seem to be passed as OK and other not-so-nasty ones get the chop.
For instance, a thread which looks to me suspiciously as though it is by a familiar hand apparently hasn't (so far) merited deletion.
Is it possible to remove a topic from "I'm on"
Terrible relationship with DIL - am I the problem?



) "eff" word?

and yes I realise that’s a daffodil but I’m working with what I have) is fine (of course) as long as it doesn’t resort to personal attacks 