Is this a new problem? I mean, did you formerly enjoy sex with your husband?
I am asking this because I went through a period of not really being interested in sex after my menopause. It also coincided with my sister's death and various other changes in our lifestyle.
Like you, I knew my husband wanted sex and I was honestly afraid our marriage would be over if I continued not to want it.
I sat down and thought long and hard, then explained to my husband that I thought my lack of interest was due to the upset over my sister's terminal illness and death and that I thought perhaps we should experiment with some new things that suited us both.
I'm not sure when I really started wanting sex again, but I did and I hope you and your husband can work something out too.
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