lucyinthesky I am sorry you are feeling some upset over negative responses. I've been on GN for a couple of months, now, and have noticed that a few will repeatedly take up contrary positions which come across as pointedly argumentative, rude and/or insulting whilst insisting they are simply giving their "opinions". I've commented about this before because I honestly don't understand why. Can't advice be offered minus the intentional barbs? In at least three of the instances that I can recall, the OP has left distraught and determined not to come back. Is that what we want?! People come here for support and the thoughtful perspectives of others, not to hear baseless assumptions and biting criticism. Please come back, Lucy, as there are always several very good points and suggestions made as well as many kind replies on every post. Most who disagree manage to stay on point and do it with tact and consideration. Ignore the rest.
Arghh!! Moving house and conveyancing frustrations