Sadly some Mums and daughters just do NOT mix well!
My daughter hs had to come home for serious MH Issues, she is 27 and I can see her festering in the bedroom upstairs forever now, we have had troubles since teenage years and it is very sad, but her behaviour because of the EUPD she has is horrendous and so difficult to live with. My BP has been rising steadily over the last year and I also have many other illnesses going on and I honestly feel that I will be lucky to hit 60 (58 shortly) Because of her moving in I have lost a great deal of my income and we are possibly going to have to move as a result. I feel as though the life I have left is going to be one of absolute bloody misery, more than it is at the moment - she isn't able to see a future for herself either which is terribly sad in one so young, and I do not know how to help her. Nearly everything she does and says is generally nasty and it is taking it's toll, it is awful for her too, don't get me wrong, it is her condition, but it is so difficult to show affection when you are constantly bombarded with what amounts to hatred as she sees me as causing it! It is horrible not having anything to look forward to, but I really haven't as I can't afford to do anything either dortie145 Good luck xx