I'm not sure whether I have understood you correctly. You say your'e doing everything at home and that you don't mind doing so when he is at work.
Does this mean that you always do all the housework?
If it does, you can't really expect your husband to help now. For one thing he doesn't know that houses don't run themselves, as neither you nor his mother ever taught him to do housework.
Most men, when they are ill, revert to being little boys who expect mummy to do everything, and wives quickly become mummy in this context.
You cannot reasonably expect a man who has never done any housework to begin when he is feeling ill.
When he is well again you will need to discuss this issue with him, otherwise you will be facing a retirement where he does nowt all day, and you are left doing all the housekeeping.
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