I'm quite amazed by all this 'worry'.Please don't! Life is too short.I have had massive health probs in the last 7yrs plus & one thing i've TAKEN back from the cancer is my teenage 'attitude'. If you wanted to put me in a category i suppose it would be Arty&Liberal.I have 33 cousins!(mother was one of 12) Aged from 55 to 88,i'm in the middle. Meet most at funerals&weddings.Some family groups are relatively poor,some rich-mainly to do with profession.But they are not differentCLASS.And if anyone tried to'put on the style' they'd get short shrift,if from no one else,from me! We mainly 'mass communicate' at Xmas & as it happens,NOW-to check that everyone is well.Over 50 2nd cousins.If some want to be stand-offish ,let them.We all have to go to the devil in our own way.Everyone contributing must have lived&loved thru the 50's,60's &70's,were we so judgemental then?A 17yr old told my husband to'chill out,it's cool' the other day wh
en he apologised,he burst out laughing.But its as good advice now as it was way back then!