Am I being unreasonable to expect that someone I know is being paid Attendance Allowance but is not, in any shape or form using it for its intended purpose?
This person really does need help in the house, lives in not exactly squalor but very dirty, disorganised and unhygienic conditions.
This person claims that after he's created some "order" himself he will engage external help, presumably with AA benefit. However, he has been procrastinating for months and it looks unlikely the help will ever materialise.
Am I being unreasonable to see that tax payers money is being spent elsewhere & not what its intended for?
Does this amount to fraud? I have no experience of these matters.
Good Morning Friday 24th July 2026
Reducing contact because my heart just isn't in it.
Husband I think is looking for divorce after 50 years.


