Hithere
She is 17, not 5!
How smothering of you
Please apologize to her right now.
She will be a legal adult in less than a year.
"Goodness, gone are the days when she did as she was told.........."
"Maybe I should have let her go and followed her jumping from hedge to hedge behind her from a distance?"
You have to be kidding me!
You have to be kidding me Hithere!
As you would be the first to point out this isnt Oopsadaisys daughter.
Ergo she is not fully responsible for her.
Ergo she erred on the side of safety.
In your view she made the wrong decision.
So what!
I wonder what would have been said if something terrible had happened.
As it is the girl had to stay in, Boohoo. Not exactly anything to apologize for imv.
In fact I think you should apologize to the op for your emotional outburst.
As for your roller coaster comment, how small minded of you.
Have you talked with her parents since this happened Oopsadaisy?
What do they think?
Try not to worry too much, talk to her tell her you worried for her, tell her you have to get used to the grown up her!
She slammed the doors, which makes me think she isnt as grown up as her years make her out to be!
What we did and what they do now cannot be compared.