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Are you irritated by incorrect grammar.

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Quizzer Wed 12-Jan-22 10:01:45

I am all for regional accents, even though some can be mildly irritating.
However what really annoys me is blatantly incorrect grammar. On the news this morning I heard a senior politician using the phrases “you was” and “we was”. Unfortunately my brain automatically reduces my perception of the speaker’s IQ by about 20 points.
Am I alone in this, or are there any other glaring errors which really irritate you?

Marydoll Thu 13-Jan-22 17:33:12

That's not what I meant Jax. When teaching the alphabet, the name of letter itself, was pronounced aitch, not haitch.

MaizieD Thu 13-Jan-22 17:39:12

FannyCornforth

Jaxjacky

Not very readable: Harry Hat Man (h as in hen)

But (I think) that is the phoneme / grapheme correspondence; as opposed to the ‘letter name’, which is aitch

It is indeed the phoneme/grapheme correspondence, not the letter name, because Letter Land was a phonics based programme.

Although I was brought up with 'aitch' and it drives me crazy when people say 'haitch' the second is actually more logical as it starts with the sound /h/ that the letter represents.

onebraincell Thu 13-Jan-22 17:41:14

Anniebach

No, I am interested in what is being said not how

I tend to be like that ... I probably make a few faux pas myself so can't jump on others.

Jaxjacky Thu 13-Jan-22 17:56:17

Ah well, that’s how they were taught and I had to practice the alphabet with them from the book.

Marydoll Thu 13-Jan-22 18:08:01

When using phonics programmes such as Letterland, it is still necessary to teach the correct letter names. I was taught that the correct name for H is aitch and haitch is a regional pronunciation. I am sure someone will dispute that.
However, in the face the experts, I am mortified that my colleagues and I have mistaught so many pupils over the years, when using Letterland. Oh well, it's too late now, the damage is done.
We were delighted when we ditched it in favour of a more suitable and appropriate phonics programme.

Now, dare I mention the pronunciation of the letter J.

Grandmajean Thu 13-Jan-22 18:16:24

In my part of Scotland it was always Jy ( to rhyme with my ) Totally wrong and our teachers knocked it out of us. It is still pronounced wrongly in the West of Scotland by those who weren't scared of the teacher ?

Marydoll Thu 13-Jan-22 18:19:48

Grandmajean ??

Witzend Thu 13-Jan-22 18:24:53

Kathy73

FannyCornforth

In fact, everytime I see the title of this thread, I am really, really irritated!

^Everytime should be written as two separate words: every time. While some compound words like everywhere, everyday, and everyone have become commonplace in the English language, everytime is not considered an acceptable compound word^

When Wilko was still called Wilkinson’s, I used to get very wound up by seeing ‘Everytime!’ plastered in big letters on their lorries.

Mollygo Thu 13-Jan-22 18:30:47

Aitch for hat, confusing yes, but equally confusing is the hard c for cat with the letter name cee. Letterland never landed in my children’s school for which I was truly grateful, though it was less confusing than ITA.

Marydoll Thu 13-Jan-22 18:37:59

Oh dear! I am not suggesting aitch for hat. Of course it's hhhhhhat!
I am talking about the letter name, which is a totally different matter from the sound.

I give up.

Marydoll Thu 13-Jan-22 18:39:50

By the way, is Letterland still used? I sincerely hope not.

Granniesunite Thu 13-Jan-22 18:45:14

No marydoll it’s not.

Serendipity22 Thu 13-Jan-22 18:45:17

Us Yorkshire folk always drop our 'h'. Admittedly we sound like old washer women ( or i do when i ear myself ) hahaha... sorry any *washer woman young or old ... x
flowers

grannyrebel7 Thu 13-Jan-22 18:51:15

I absolutely hate bad grammar. It drives me crazy and detracts from what is being said. However, I have a little sympathy for Angela Rayner's bad grammar now as I thought she gave a great performance in the House the other day in Keir Starmer's absence. What an achievement for someone with her background to have become the deputy leader of the Labour Party.

Jaxjacky Thu 13-Jan-22 18:54:21

Maybe it was only taught in Hampshire as the local accent is notorious for dropping its h’s , hence ‘ampshire og’ ??

Ravelling Thu 13-Jan-22 19:04:47

FannyCornforth

Did the dog correct you, Ravelling?
That’s always mortifying!

grin

Mogsmaw Thu 13-Jan-22 19:11:27

EllanVannin

The double use of off/ of---get off of there. What's that about ?

Being from Renfrewshire.
It’s dialectic usage. Not a grammatical error.

Marydoll Thu 13-Jan-22 19:20:37

Mogsmaw

EllanVannin

The double use of off/ of---get off of there. What's that about ?

Being from Renfrewshire.
It’s dialectic usage. Not a grammatical error.

A Paisley girl here, who was known to shout that at/to ? her pupils. ?

CanadianGran Thu 13-Jan-22 19:25:55

Obviously some here are better than others with grammar and word usage. On board forums such as this there are very few times when something will jump out at me, but realize that people are typing on ipads or phones, so easy to make mistakes. At least here we don't see text-speak, as in 'C U 2mrw"

The only time grammar mistakes really bother me is in business correspondence. We have one employee in management who has terrible grammar, and I flinch in embarrassment sometimes when copied in to correspondence.

FannyCornforth Fri 14-Jan-22 07:42:46

I’ve been teaching phonics since 2006 and have never come across Letterland (or indeed Letter Land wink)

And can I just clarify; I know that everytime is not a compound word.
It was a mistype.
I type my replies as quickly as possible, in order to maintain a ‘chatty’ flow.
I never preview.
I don’t treat GN posts as essays. smile

FannyCornforth Fri 14-Jan-22 07:44:09

Totally right CanadianGran
Spot on smile

Marydoll Fri 14-Jan-22 08:10:29

Fanny, totally agree! Pulling posters up for making spelling or grammatical errors, may lead to people being reluctant to post. ☹

I am always surprised ( I shouldn't be by now) that there are people, who feel the need to correct others. Who actually cares if everyone/every one is not a compound word? I don't, the meaning was clear.

By the way, it is Letterland, Fanny, just in case you wanted to know. ??

eazybee Fri 14-Jan-22 08:36:24

Well then, I won't comment about practice and practise.

FannyCornforth Fri 14-Jan-22 08:40:52

eazybee I always have to really think about practice and practise.

Does anyone know, is there a clever way of remembering which one to use?

Lauren59 Fri 14-Jan-22 08:44:32

The misuse of your/you’re and there/their/they’re is rampant.

I once dated a man who only used “your” and “there”. I may be very shallow for feeling this way, but it bothered me.