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Refugees - How will our finances cope?

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LilyoftheValley Wed 16-Mar-22 13:30:43

Like most people I think, I am truly horrified by what is going on in the Ukraine. I have donated duvets, blankets and food . I was musing today about the huge number who hope to come to the UK. GB, like most countries has to help shoulder the burden of cost.

I wonder just how much, this will eat into our already overstretched NHS and Social Care Budget. Will we have to say goodbye to care and help because of it?

If the women and children coming here eventually bring their menfolk I don't see where the money will be there for pensioners, schools etc..

Any thoughts?

Lucca Thu 17-Mar-22 17:42:13

Mamardoit

Yes I will take the cut and paste back. There was no need.
But the Do I win?.....What the hell was the poster getting at? It was pathetic coming from a supposedly educated adult.

Everyone is entitled to post. I've said nothing that is anti refugees.

Not the cut and paste …the “nasty”

Gelleh Thu 17-Mar-22 17:49:35

Yes JJ your reply on the subject that fee paying schools might offer places was that my comment was "crass". I chose not to take you up on it because I do not think you are nasty and judgmental, just frustrated and irritated by the system, and seeing it from your own perspective.
I am glad we all agree that every child is precious.

JaneJudge Thu 17-Mar-22 17:52:50

I don't really want to go over my own family history but if one of my relatives hadn't got to safety here and their family followed, I wouldn't have been born. Two generations ago my family were discriminated against because of who they were and where they came from and our foreign names. Maybe to some of us it is more personal. I don't know.

Thank you for your reply Gelleh

JaneJudge Thu 17-Mar-22 17:55:33

my family member was a small child who travelled alone fwiw

I think I'm a bit exasperated. I cannot imagine putting a child on a boat, big or small and thinking that was the best thing for them.

Displacement is traumatic and just quite frankly, horrible and unnecessary in a modern world. It all just makes me so sad

Iam64 Thu 17-Mar-22 19:09:45

I had two work colleagues who arrived as children on the kinder transport. Every member of their families perished in the camps. They were older and more experienced at our work than I was. I remember them with affection gratitude and respect fir their support and fir being such good role models
Refugees often contribute hugely to the country thst offers refuge.

Callistemon21 Thu 17-Mar-22 19:51:57

I had a work colleague/friend who was a Hungarian refugee and friends (two families) who were refugees from Uganda.

I cannot imagine putting a child on a boat, big or small and thinking that was the best thing for them
My Hungarian friend arrived alone as a child and was taken in by two women. One Ugandan friend arrived alone too but has made a very good life here.

All of them have contributed enormously to this country.
They are all assets, not drains on our economy.

Callistemon21 Thu 17-Mar-22 19:56:25

I should have added JaneJudge, that doing that must be from desperation and hope that someone, somewhere, would take them in and care for them.

I knew someone whose DGC were sent out to Australia under the orphan scheme. I would love to be able to find them and tell them how their grandmother never forgot them and always wanted to care for them.