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Why does he do this?

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Nandalot Mon 13-Jun-22 14:00:10

DH has always been the one to do the shopping, (now online). He has always had a tendency to overbuy. We have kitchen cupboards, a pantry under the stairs, a shelving unit in the utility, part of an upstairs wardrobe full of groceries, not forgetting water, squash etc under the model railway in the garage. Oooh and paper goods secreted in odd cupboards upstairs. He has always had this tendency to stock up which became exacerbated with Brexit and Covid. I have just bought a slow cooker in order to cut down on electricity and this has warranted a rearrangement of kitchen cupboards. This has brought home to me just how much stuff we have! I have also realised that he is just the same with medicines. Two of the large shelves in the kitchen wall cupboards, plus four of the shelves in the small cupboards are full of medicines, both prescription and other, plus plasters etc. You may wonder why this has come as a surprise to me? Well, DH has always done a lot of the cooking but since I had my pacemaker fitted, as we have an induction hob, he has done nearly all except for baking.
So I suppose I shouldn’t complain really!

MawtheMerrier Tue 14-Jun-22 19:41:02

I think stockpiling can also be a sort of security blanket- insurance against dodgy times to come.
That’s my excuse for my retail habit anyway.

Yammy Tue 14-Jun-22 19:54:42

Lucca

Yammy

Lucca

in the 50's and 60's they always bought things in twos even packets of nylons

Really ?!!

Yes in the same colour then if one laddered in each pack they still had another pair you could get boxes with two pairs in.

What,everyone bought everything in twos ??
I didn’t.

Maybe you didn't but at the beginning of the 50's everything was still on ration and if product came into a shop and my mother was allowed two she would buy them and give one to my gran or keep them for herself when her stocks were low.My aunt must have been one of the first who practised organised cupboards like we are told today ,she put the date bought on the tin with a marker pencil before tins were marked with use before dates. My mum kept her tins in rows and always put the newest at the back.
Perhaps as we did not live near any big towns or cities things were in short supply. Long after rationing was stopped my gran still sent her ration book list to the Co op for her weekly delivery.On line shopping?

Callistemon21 Tue 14-Jun-22 20:36:52

MawtheMerrier

I think stockpiling can also be a sort of security blanket- insurance against dodgy times to come.
That’s my excuse for my retail habit anyway.

I do like to keep a few lot of toilet rolls in stock.
Perhaps it's because I remember the shortage in the 1970s?
DH calls it my "Brexit stash"

Talking about stash - don't mention yarn.

Puzzled Sat 18-Jun-22 12:27:48

Yes, a tendency to hoard!
Those old enough to remember when goods were not easily available, probably do tend to stock up, "Just in case"
And the stock is a good insurance against when the press say that "something" is in short supply, triggering a spate of panic buying.

RainbowsAndUnicorns1 Fri 05-Aug-22 04:15:55

I would suggest going through all the tinned food and checking the use by dates. Be honest with yourself and those tins, still in date, but near to the use by date which you will not use, donate to the local food bank.

The food will not be wasted and your cupboards will be less full.

Cabbie21 Fri 05-Aug-22 14:10:47

Tinned stuff should not have a USE BY date. Maybe Best Before, but that is for stock rotation. Tinned goods will keep for years, as long as the tin is not dented or rusty or “ blown”. The texture may deteriorate but the product will be safe to eat.