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So called jokes about rape!

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TerriBull Mon 01-Aug-22 12:19:14

AIBU to think that jokes about rape and killing women whatever the context are completely unacceptable and to women not funny at all.

Frankie Boyle, addressed a controversial stand up routine at the Latitude Festival recently in which he joked about raping and murdering tv presenter Holly Willoughby, he argued that the so called "joke" came within a wider context.

This is the context: in describing a game about killing and shagging people he included HW, he said this "I'd obviously kill and rape her afterwards, I'm only joking I'd rape her first"

AIBU, given the all too recent Sarah Everard case and the umpteen other women who will have been raped and kill by men his remarks are reprehensible. How is he getting away with this?

Lathyrus Wed 03-Aug-22 17:57:44

All it shows us that there are a number of people in Edinburgh who think that killing and raping women is funny.

Or that he’s bought a lot of his own tickets?

tickingbird Wed 03-Aug-22 18:01:43

Or that he’s bought a lot of his own tickets

Well he was on twitter urging ‘fans’ to buy the half price ones early. A kind of BOGOF wink

Lathyrus Wed 03-Aug-22 18:01:59

Just for information The Music Halk Edinburgh has a capacity of around 670.

His former shows at the Fringe.were allocated a venue with almost double that capacity.

Lathyrus Wed 03-Aug-22 18:02:45

Oh dear. Fewer tickets and still having to go at half price.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 03-Aug-22 18:03:21

Lathyrus

Just for information The Music Halk Edinburgh has a capacity of around 670.

His former shows at the Fringe.were allocated a venue with almost double that capacity.

Me thinks his star is on a downwards trajectory

volver Wed 03-Aug-22 18:18:52

Jings.

Move over Meghan, they've found somebody new to hate.

?

Galaxy Wed 03-Aug-22 19:01:42

No I dont hate him I am just aware of him as many many women have been for some time. It's really not just a GN thing. Hes kind of part of the discussion that goes on about left wing men, often comedians whose behaviour in relation to women has surprised many feminists. Oh and they all claim to be feminists and challenging toxic masculinity.

volver Wed 03-Aug-22 19:11:13

Discussions about whether his act is humorous or not are valid. Calling him a pin up boy for incels and claiming he purchases all his own tickets are just puerile. As for saying Edinburgh's full of people who think killing and raping women is funny? Well even Truss wouldn't stoop that low.

Lathyrus Wed 03-Aug-22 19:19:53

Sexual violence yearly increase iof 15% in Scotland.
Figures of reported sexual crimes against women a 50 year high.

Scottish comedian jokes about raping and killing a woman

Comedians fans boast of sell out show in Scottish city.

?

Lathyrus Wed 03-Aug-22 19:23:44

Frankie Boyle might have bought tickets to his own show.

Just a joke, volver. Don’t you think it’s funny ????

Which is worse. No don’t bother. I know what you think.

volver Wed 03-Aug-22 19:29:22

I know what you think.

Do you? My God, such prescience.

Lathyrus Wed 03-Aug-22 19:36:10

Well yes.

You don’t think it’s funny……..

Callistemon21 Wed 03-Aug-22 19:37:48

volver

Would you rather I wasn't here?

Answering a question with a question.
That's a politician's answer.

Callistemon21 Wed 03-Aug-22 19:39:26

volver

Jings.

Move over Meghan, they've found somebody new to hate.

?

Why should anyone hate him?
He seems to have hatred enough for women without us stooping to his level.

Callistemon21 Wed 03-Aug-22 19:43:11

volver

Jings.

Move over Meghan, they've found somebody new to hate.

?

Who are they?

Goadyfuckery again which is best ignored because the main aim of a goadyfucker (according to MN) is to get other posters banned.

volver Wed 03-Aug-22 19:45:31

Just as well I'm not a goadyfucker then. Think of all the fun I'd miss if you weren't all here.

But do carry on and ignore me by making posts addressing me directly. That's sensible.

Galaxy Wed 03-Aug-22 19:59:08

As I have said I am against policing jokes but am very wary of him. If it's any help I feel a bit the same about Stewart Lee.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 03-Aug-22 20:13:52

I am a lover not a hater.

Having been a victim of sexual violence myself, just cannot find any humour in the subject whatsoever.

Each to their own …

TerriBull Wed 03-Aug-22 20:14:20

Isn't Jings a late and very well loved poster on GN? what else could that word refer to, no idea!

I hope this will be my last post of the evening on this thread, I have umpteen pieces of mind numbing trash to watch on Netflix and Prime that are beckoning.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 03-Aug-22 20:16:02

TerriBull

Isn't Jings a late and very well loved poster on GN? what else could that word refer to, no idea!

I hope this will be my last post of the evening on this thread, I have umpteen pieces of mind numbing trash to watch on Netflix and Prime that are beckoning.

Yep, unfortunately she is also deceased

Callistemon21 Wed 03-Aug-22 20:21:37

TerriBull

Isn't Jings a late and very well loved poster on GN? what else could that word refer to, no idea!

I hope this will be my last post of the evening on this thread, I have umpteen pieces of mind numbing trash to watch on Netflix and Prime that are beckoning.

Yes, Jings was Jinglbellsfrocks, a much missed poster.

Iam64 Wed 03-Aug-22 20:25:07

Lathyrus

Sexual violence yearly increase iof 15% in Scotland.
Figures of reported sexual crimes against women a 50 year high.

Scottish comedian jokes about raping and killing a woman

Comedians fans boast of sell out show in Scottish city.

?

I understand the freedom of speech issues but the issue of male violence to women isn’t something I find even slightly amusing. Why can’t these ‘comedians’ find humour in less dangerous areas

lixy Wed 03-Aug-22 20:26:34

volver

Would you rather I wasn't here?

No, of course not!

Your pernickitiness drives me to distraction on occasion but you, Terribull, Callistemon and others who make contentious posts do make me think and I'm grateful for that.

I just would prefer it if a thread just stopped rather than degenerate into huffiness.

Callistemon21 Wed 03-Aug-22 20:28:35

lixy
I am very rarely contentious.
Terribull is rarely contentious either, she asked a pertinent question.

I'm sorry, but we are not the contentious ones.

Galaxy Wed 03-Aug-22 20:29:18

Interesting stuff floating about around goings on at The Guardian in relation to women and the culture there. I wish that every time I wasnt surprised.