glammagran
Norah
mumofmadboys
Norah - why such a goading post?!
Well, I don't think I "goaded"....
Equal is always always best, in my opinion.
I’m not sure in which way you think I’m treating the older 2 children of 48 and 45 unequally. I merely said I think getting children to school took precedence over a 17 year old learning to drive. That was sorted last month. It was lending it out to in-laws we weren’t happy with.
I responded to what I read in your OP. The in-laws were not part to the OP.
To me, equal is always best. It seemed you were giving priority to your son. Son had the car, seemed to me, quite some time (2 years).
We attempt equal to our children - thus my asking if you considered that aspect. Not the in-laws as a red herring.
No matter, all are different parents.