VioletSky
Except I have been part of these threads for a long time
I've seen people here put an ie before the s in trans. I have seen people say "** in a frock", I have seen people deliberately misgender and deadname trans people, I have seen people say that criminals give trans people a bad name or that ordinary trans people should be apologising for the actions of criminals, I have seen people laugh at trans people and say they could never look female...
I have seen it all Dickens and I don't pretend to be perfectly nice and I will defend people who do not deserve bullying and need a little kindness and compassion
So here we are
And btw, I do it with a lot more grace and dignity than the brigade who have called me "stupid" or said that I "must be a terrible TA" they wouldn't want to teach their grandchildren of those who brought my abusive mother into the chat and used that against me.
What one calls passive aggression I call trying to put the hard things as politely as possible
What another calls gaslighting is the simple fact that they have decided what I think and won't hear me say otherwise (can you say projection?)
I am just a person, not perfect but I will tell you the truth. The truth is my respect is largely gone and it was given freely at first... people lost it for themselves
I've seen people here put an ie before the s in trans. I have seen people say "** in a frock", I have seen people deliberately misgender and deadname trans people, I have seen people say that criminals give trans people a bad name or that ordinary trans people should be apologising for the actions of criminals, I have seen people laugh at trans people and say they could never look female...
Yes, I've seen some of that too - all over SM sites.
BUT - those that you are addressing on here, that are responding to your comments - me, Doodledog, Galaxy, and others, have not engaged in those kinds of insults.
I don't mis-gender (not deliberately anyway), I've never referred to transgender people as "trannies" - nor would I - and I'm not aware of any of us laughing at the TG community.
I am direct and to the point. If I use any 'slang' terminology - it is because I'm repeating that used by the TRAs, either to emphasise some of their nasty traits or highlight the absurdity of their claims.
Finally, I'm not on a mission to hate or denigrate any group or demographic. I'm not looking for targets. I don't hate TG people, they are human beings and have rights and need protections like any other group of people. And like any other demographic, I'm sure there are some very nice people among them. People who just want to get on with their lives, again, just like anyone else. My criticism is aimed at those - men, let's be clear - who want to ride roughshod over women and remove their rights and protections. But I think you know all this... that's why your observation about moving on to other targets - implying that we were just looking for someone, or some group, to hate was totally uncalled for.
You've set yourself up as the more "emotionally intelligent" on here and accused us of "hysteria". Flinging wild accusations implying that we're simply hatemongers looking for a target is not a very emotionally mature thing to say.
As for losing your respect - well, that's a two-way street.
BTW, I think some of the observations you make are 'off the wall' But I have never called you "stupid".