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Thinking about this football winners kiss .

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Floradora9 Tue 12-Sept-23 21:44:17

I remembered when I was a late teenager and worked in a bank, being in Scotland, kissing went on quite a lot around New Year . When we went back to work we would be kissed by the three male senior members of staff. I cannot remember where the other men kissed me but I do remember the sloppy kiss on the lips we got from the assistant manager. He was a married man with children .
Many years later I worked for a different bank and was more mature and sure of myself. I used to say to my boss that I did not kiss him the rest of the year so why should I do so after the New Year. We had a horrible HR young man who also tried to kiss you . When he tried I turned my face away and he kissed my cheek. He was the same young man who was Santa at the joint Christmas party and you had to sit on his knee before you got your present. I got round this by not putting my name in the hat to have someone else draw it out and buy me a gift.

Iam64 Sun 17-Sept-23 08:46:19

Allsorts, the man has a history of unacceptable behaviour. I doubt these Patterns of behaviour will change. The man believes he did no wrong so why change

NotSpaghetti Sun 17-Sept-23 09:47:15

I don't think she changed her views
Allsorts - and I don't understand why you think she did.

Callistemon21 Sun 17-Sept-23 10:40:04

BlueBelle

Allsorts he wouldn’t have lost his job and it would have been all forgotten by the next day if the arrogant self entitled sod had just SAID SORRY

👏👏👏

Callistemon21 Sun 17-Sept-23 10:41:43

BlueBelle

A man who had already had his hands on ‘his bits’ in his excitement !!!

Oh Yuk!!! And no time to wash them

EverybodyHatesMaureen Sat 30-Sept-23 17:34:58

I worked in a shop on a Saturday in the early 80’s aged 15/16 - the area manager used to come in at Christmas and give us presents of cheap perfume and kiss us all on the lips. Me and a colleague the same age once hid in a cupboard in the staff room so he wouldn’t find us. I find it incredibly depressing that this forced kissing is still happening 40 years later

NotSpaghetti Sun 01-Oct-23 07:34:11

Me too EHM!
... and that people make excuses for him!

karmalady Tue 03-Oct-23 21:29:17

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Warbler Thu 25-Jan-24 19:13:03

It was okay until I sneezed on the way out of the hospital. I went to the loo, washed it and wore it on my wrist for a week until my fizzy-o daughter came to visit and said …. “Erm, M-u-u-m what are you wearing on your wrist…..?

RosiesMaw Thu 25-Jan-24 21:44:37

Warbler

It was okay until I sneezed on the way out of the hospital. I went to the loo, washed it and wore it on my wrist for a week until my fizzy-o daughter came to visit and said …. “Erm, M-u-u-m what are you wearing on your wrist…..?

I’m confused and don’t get the connection-have I missed something?
And why is your D described as fizzy -o ?