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Bf search history

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Confusedfriend Mon 25-Nov-24 17:27:20

Hello

I told my boyfriend about a celebrity and to search them on "facebook". When he searched them, I saw his search history briefly and the first person was a girl. Called Tess. After seeing this i searched girls called tess and saw she is mutual friends with my close friend. Her profile is private and he isn't a friend. Then I started doubting what I read as his phone was upside down. I then asked him to search something else... 30mins later.. and I saw he had deleted that entry. I know this because my friend asked him to like a competition he had posted on Saturday and this was the last search. Which I know isn't true.

Should I ask who tess is? Whay do you think?

Grunty Tue 26-Nov-24 11:30:25

I would concur Scribbles.

Esmay Tue 26-Nov-24 16:48:27

Hi ,
I have to admit that I wondered if your post was genuine .
Maybe , that's why there was such a knee jerk reaction to it .
At the moment
, your hormones are surging and now you are having doubts about your fiancé .
Spreadsheets make me worry that each time you need baby supplies-he'll be getting the calculator out .
And now ,
you're concerned about Tess . First she's there and then she isn't- I'd be worried as well .
The thing is we females have great inner radar .
I had doubts about a long term relationship and I was so right .
Now over the past decade : both my daughters have had exactly the same experience .

One other thing : my experience with dogs makes me extremely careful with Husky dogs and small children .

Take a deep breath and continue to consider what is best for you and your precious baby .

Wishing you the very best .
Esmay .

Confusedfriend Thu 28-Nov-24 01:29:02

Thank you Esmay.

Definitely not made up, I would have thought of something more comical if I wanted a laugh 🥺 thank you for your advice. I really appreciate it x

BlueBelle Thu 28-Nov-24 04:12:00

I d stay in the therapy you sound as if you definitely need it