Thank you all for your replies, help and ideas. I am so sorry about what a lot of you are going through. I wish I could offer some helpful advice as you have done for me, but not having found anything that works, I don't think anything I have to say would be helpful :-( As awful as it sounds, it is a great comfort to know that I am not alone, although I would not wish this on my worst enemy.
PS- Thank you for your post, you sound as if you are very similar to me, both in how you used to be and in your thoughts about counselling and treatment.
I went back to the psych. last week and due to strong suicidal feelings on my current medication, he is now slowly withdrawing me off of it. I hate doing this as I always find the withdrawal symptoms hellish.
He has also referred me to a sleep clinic. He said that he has to rule out Sleep Apnoea. I don't feel that I have a sleep disorder (except that the depression/meds make me sleep 15+ hours most days) I thought sleep apnoea was diagnosed in people that don't get enough 'proper' sleep??? I feel that I get plenty of deep, dreamy sleep - in fact at times it feels like I sleep too heavy and have too many dreams :-)
So I guess i'll see what comes of the consultation tomorrow. My GP also wonders if I have ME or better known as Chronic Fatigue....... I'm not sure about any of it, I just want to feel normal again... maybe I am trying to push myself to much; somedays I just feel like giving in to it all (which I have done occasionally, and have just hidden under my duvet).
I've been trying to walk most days and it does make me feel a little bit 'lighter', so I am determined to try and keep this up.
Betsysgran - Thank you for messaging me and huge thank you for your suggestion - I love to sing!! (awful voice though). I know there is a singing group just round the corner from me, I think I might give this a go. Singing always used to make me feel much better and really uplifting - huge thank you for reminding me of this.
I cannot thank you all enough for the messages that you have left on here. I didn't come back for a while as I thought it best that I didn't, but then Betsysgran pm'd me and I am so glad I came back to read all of these posts. I will keep reading and updating - maybe there is a miracle cure out there :-)
best wishes to all of you x