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Anyone had a broken wrist/arm?

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squaredog Tue 03-Jun-14 08:45:00

Oh dear, although I have friends who 'offer', someone to take me for my big shop once a week, after just 3 weeks, I'm feeling the loss of my independence, (I'm a car driving singleton), my ability to sew, craft, paint, and open a soddin' bottle!

I've rejoined the local library and am thinking of giving the reading club a go, I will try the bus when I feel a little more secure (do they ever let you sit down before starting up again?), and bloody whoe is me.......

I'm such a cheery person, no really I am, so please, if anyone has any ideas for not going completely stir-crazy, let me know.

I also realise, this has been sent to test my patience. Mmmmmm

Nelliemoser Thu 05-Jun-14 10:50:20

Squaredog Sympathies.

I had my right arm out of action last autumn following a the repair of two frayed tendons. It was very frustrating, difficulties getting dressed, eating and much more, being unable to drive myself was really frustrating I do like my independence.

The sling came off a couple of weeks before Xmas and I was pushed into using it. Very painful but Christmas cooking, did force me to get the muscles back in use, reaching for the kitchen utensils on my window ledge was really hard but it really did help along with the pain killers.

I did get to typing on GN with my left hand. It did help pass the time.

annodomini Thu 05-Jun-14 11:16:44

I've had two ops (one on right hand and the other on the left shoulder) that left me one-handed for a good six weeks each time. It is so frustrating, but I found I did adjust, though I am so right-handed that using a mouse and typing with my left hand was a real challenge. And try doing a sudoku or a crossword with the 'wrong hand! A silver lining was that it was the perfect opportunity to have a cleaner. I hated not being able to drive, but it was a great saving on petrol, as I have a bus pass, though on occasion, I found that I had overdone the shopping and had to get a taxi home. hmm. squaredog, do try the reading club. You may find authors you'd never heard of. Look on the sunshine side. You are three weeks through the ordeal, which could be half-way.

AAA - nice that you find this thread funny. I doubt if your sense of humour is shared here.

AAAHappyMan Thu 05-Jun-14 23:48:28

Stanley Holloway expressed what we Brits used to take pride in - but now it seems that West coast of USA emotional incontinence has even spread to some of our generation.
I say, Stanley - over to you old boy - you jolly North Country lad you !

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h29OpLm_D3w

MiceElf Fri 06-Jun-14 05:11:08

The words 'pub' and 'bore' spring to mind.

Ariadne Fri 06-Jun-14 06:52:46

They do indeed, MiceElf! Irrelevant and insensitive are other words I'd use.

Squaredog much sympathy on this long haul. I have just about recovered from a knee replacement, and, while it is a totally different matter from a broken arm, I can still appreciate how you feel about the loss of independence. I am not on my own, and could therefore be driven around, and give instructions about food, shopping etc grin but even asking for simple help made me feel useless.

I'd reiterate what others have said - read, read, read. There is also a really good app called really, full of every magazine possible. You have to subscribe eventually, but there's quite a long free trial. It is ideal for just browsing.

Keep posting. flowers

DebnCreme Fri 06-Jun-14 07:19:51

Poor you squaredog as everyone says; read, read, read. I had a fall a couple of weeks ago and all there was virtually no damage it has caused me to lose confidence so it must be so much worse for you. Perhaps you could organise a small social gathering for your 'shopping team' then they can open the bottles grin ? Good luck flowers.

i found AAA's first message quite amusing in a weird sorta way but sadly further messages became too obscure for my poor addled brain smile

PRINTMISS Fri 06-Jun-14 08:54:06

With you there Stansgran and squaredog I sympathise with you, broke my wrist last year, fortunately my left one, I am right handed, but what a nuisance it was! However I would advise taking it steady, make sure you do the exercises which I presume have been given to you, and when the plaster comes off try to remember that you will no be able to lift anything heavy. I had to wear a light support for about a week. Patience is a virtue and virtue is a grace and Grace is a little girl who wouldn't wash her face! - Not sure that helps, but my old boss used to say that to me after I had been sitting waiting for dictation, whilst he was on the phone.

trendygran Fri 06-Jun-14 18:06:35

No, but I understand the rubbish written by AAAHappyMan ,as a native of a few miles from Grimethorpe, No longer in that wonderful county ,unfortunately. Not sure what it has to do with broken limbs!

squaredog Sat 07-Jun-14 09:07:37

Well, I've had osteoporosis for 20 yrs, so flippin lucky it wasn't my hip.

It's also in my arm with lymphoedema, (no lymph glands), so my fingers are just starting to swell enough to be uncomfy.

Oh, yes, it does indeed make you grateful for what able bodies we have, doesn't it?

After I'd been through my protracted cancer treatment, I found listening to people moaning about trivia irritating. Wondering now, if I've become one of them.

Oh dear..........

hildajenniJ Sat 21-Jun-14 18:50:08

Oh poor you squaredog. I broke my left wrist three years ago after falling on the ice by my garden gate. I wasn't allowed to go to work (nursing) for seven weeks. I just about went crazy. I read loads and did puzzles. The best exercise for it when the plaster came off was to do press ups against a wall . Put your hands, with arms outstretched, against a wall. Then push in and out. The physio said I'd probably regain 80% use of it, but I actually now have full use of my arm. I now dislike ice intensely, except in a drink. grin