I can see why she might want warning that she is going to drop in, and it is easy enough to do.
I never understand the clothes snobbery bit- you can get such lovely things second hand and they are next to new. However if she has one of those odd daughters it isn't worth fighting. She should stick to getting second hand books and toys and keeping them at her house to play with.
They do relax more as the child becomes older or they have more than one.
Control issues are at their height with a first baby.
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