I learned everything that a MiL shouldn't do!
She was a selfish, poisonous, lazy, miserable woman who had no redeeming features whatsoever!
She freely admitted that she had never wanted children and my DH was only conceived because it was expected of her......who by, is anyone's guess as my FiL didn't want children either!
I had known her for 19 years when she died, and she still had never made me a cup of coffee!
It wasn't just me that she disliked though, it was basically everyone apart from herself, she was just a very strange woman. She didn't seem to like my FiL very much, never bought him birthday or Christmas presents, I never saw her hug him, my DH or our DS, and she certainly would never have cuddled me!
I have a great relationship with my DiL, she's lovely and is the daughter I never had