These posts are all interesting to me and glad it came up. I think our first 18 month old DGD is lovely, but I don't feel the butterflies my DH does. The father is his adopted son, and I'm the stepmum who first met him when he was 21 (their mum died 6 years before). Now 25 years later and we are 'all family', but I think of both stepsons as more of mentored-friends. But as I never had my own children, I wonder if that's why I don't have those grandma butterflies like her grampa gets.
I absolutely love holding her and giving her her 'nap bottle'... she pulls at my fingers and looks straight at me. The rest of the time I am busy on the day we have her, picking her up from nursery and getting the 'report' from the staff, getting food ready, changing her (with lots of giggles as she likes to throw her legs up in the air to 'help'), whilst grampa does most of the playing and fun stuff. Even though it's me who buys the toys 'they' play with LOL.
It's getting better... maybe I need to get down on the floor and play with her more!?