Sorry I've not been on. 'Flu/cold' hit me badly yesterday.
Thank you all for your advice, she does have different clothes to wear here and some tend to go to and from both homes. Tessa101, I have thought about it and have decided to leave things a they are and like you say wait for an opening to hopefully arise at some point.
I have never been over houseproud, as long as my place was clean and started off reasonably tidy I didn't mind if it was 'lived in', I don't want to appear judgemental.
Trisha - yes that is exactly the smell, sort of damp clothes, I will have a think on buying a 2nd hand tumble dryer if I can find a tactful way of doing it.
Emilyharburn -Mother works part time (as a cleaner) and lives in a 1st floor flat.
On the whole my GD is a happy well adjusted kind little girl, so I will just keep an eye on things.
Thank you all so much for the back up and advice you have all offered. xx