Madmeg wrote
'Hello Gracesgran
What a lucky lady your beloved mum us to have you looking out for her so kindly and considerately.' My reaction too from this thread.
And like Kitty Lester's Mum, my Mum was so different after she went into a care home (she had a stroke.) She had been very anxious and lacking confidence, but after the move was so relaxed, all her minor health problems forgotten about. She felt safe, no more bills to pay etc.
It's a progression we probably all go through, (if we live that long.)
Have things improved in your 60s?
Expensive free range chicken was tasteless!


She has Yoghurt Corners in the fridge and similarly packed rice puddings which I can suggest she has at different times. She is very ridged with her routines - at one point she always had Heinz Tomato soup for lunch - but now it is WFF for lunch and WFF for dinner.