How would you deal with a man who had minimal contact with his son when young (0-3), then gave up local work to work on cruise ships. When home he used to send threatening texts - Court etc but now words things in a more manipulative manner i.e. I would like to take him away because it will be beneficial for him. Grandson has only ever stayed at ex's mums Fri over Sat and rarely for 2 days if they go to hol park. Serious worry now is that cruise work has ended, he has send my daughter a huge list of dates he wants him, he wants to take him abroad in summer and this list goes up to Sep. Grandson has a life, hobbies, loves going to ex's mum but none of that is considered. Grandson has ADHD and Aspergers which his father ignores. Help please. When communication arrives from this ex it badly affects my daughter and sends me into total panic. Splitz helped me and daughter for a year but the brilliant helper left.
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