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Mr P has just complained about his dinner, who's right, him or me?

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phoenix Sun 09-Apr-17 18:45:11

Evening all,

Mr P is currently away from Monday morning until Friday afternoon, with no access to a kitchen and a limited budget for eating out.

So, when he IS home, I try to do reasonably healthy food.

Friday. Sweet chili chicken, bami goreng, small salad on the side.

Saturday. Grilled ribeye steak (on special offer in Lidl) jacket potato, salad.

Sunday. Chicken parcels (a chicken breast, a quality chipolata sausage on top, wrap the whole thing in bacon, bung in dish and roast) roast potatoes, cauliflower cheese (not a whole cauliflower, just cut off a few decent sized florets) leeks, mashed swede, stuffing, a few carrots for me (he's not keen on carrots confused) gravy, of course.

He says I do too many different veg, I disagree!

I prep them all, (apart from the potatoes, somehow we have got into the habit of doing them together, him peeling, me chopping ready for par boiling, while listening to the omnibus edition of the Archers blush )

I feel that he eats some pretty crap food while away, so like to feel that I'm at least giving him something halfway decent when he's at home!

BTW, he did say he enjoyed his meal, just that there was a bit too much. Didn't see anything left on the plate though.........

Crafting Mon 10-Apr-17 23:01:50

I was just about to ask how long you cook them for Phoenix as it sounds a good alternative to a full roast.. sorry still but I for one am interested.

stillaliveandkicking Mon 10-Apr-17 22:53:33

Why are you crossing over with different threads? What is said on one surely stays there? It's a different subject and people think differently/react differently on each.

stillaliveandkicking Mon 10-Apr-17 22:51:28

I also wouldn't throw too much into cooking for him all the time. But then again that's me. If he complained I'd tell him to bloody do it himself, not post what fantastically balanced menu's you create.

phoenix Mon 10-Apr-17 22:51:10

Romance scam blog/thread, posts this evening.

stillaliveandkicking Mon 10-Apr-17 22:46:51

Not sure what you mean Phoenix? I address each thread by the content of what it is opened by then the postings after. Everyone has different experiences/feelings about each thread, well that is my understanding anyway.

phoenix Mon 10-Apr-17 22:40:52

Indeed it does,*Saak*, indeed it does.

Perhaps I'm wrong (often am) but you seemed to be saying something along the lines of "I get you Phoenix" on another thread, along with a thinly veiled implication that I was a bit thick and needed things explained to me.

stillaliveandkicking Mon 10-Apr-17 22:30:20

Glad to hear it Phoenix. I however don't but it takes all sorts.

merlotgran Mon 10-Apr-17 22:30:13

It takes one to know one grin

phoenix Mon 10-Apr-17 22:28:31

merlot always "gets" me, we've been bantering for quite a while wink

stillaliveandkicking Mon 10-Apr-17 22:15:25

Excellent post merlot, you do make me laugh.

merlotgran Mon 10-Apr-17 22:08:13

OK. 'Grasp your sausage and straighten it!'

That's where I've been going wrong. grin

phoenix Mon 10-Apr-17 21:37:55

Yeah, right.

stillaliveandkicking Mon 10-Apr-17 21:27:49

Totally apologies phoenix. Maybe I just don't get people that start off with some sort of argument then it transpires that they're jovially almost going for a recipe book.

phoenix Mon 10-Apr-17 21:16:44

I think a decision that was only half formed, has just set like concrete.

stillaliveandkicking Mon 10-Apr-17 21:08:22

Riveting reading.

phoenix Mon 10-Apr-17 21:06:49

The "chicken parcels" work well when it isn't practical to do a whole chicken, for example if you don't want to spend the next few days either eating cold chicken, or preparing pie or curry!

Get a decent sized chicken breast, pat dry with kitchen roll, slap it a bit with your hand.

Firmly grasp the chipolata, and straighten it (they tend to be curved in their natural state!).

Put it on top of the chicken breast, (sometimes the sort of underside of the breast is easier, as it often has a slightly concave surface). Using rashers of streaky bacon, wrap them around the chicken/chipolata combo so that they go over and under, if that makes sense!

Sprinkle with a bit of dried sage, if liked, or pop a fresh sage leaf on the chicken before wrapping.

If you pop them in a dish where they fit reasonably closely, they should stay in one piece, but you can secure with cocktail sticks if you don't trust them!

Diddy1 Mon 10-Apr-17 20:46:32

It sounds delicious, I may be around with all the other GN who have invited themselves.

Katek Mon 10-Apr-17 20:41:59

DH criticised in the kitchen for years-not so much at the content of the meal but rather my prep and methods. I was using the wrong knife, why didn't I add more stock, too many potatoes in the pan, wrong amount of water in the kettle etc etc. I snapped. Told him that he could just cook everything himself as I was fed up with the niggly criticism. He's cooked most nights since then! It's actually worked out well as he enjoys cooking and I don't.

merlotgran Mon 10-Apr-17 20:38:35

Didn't the bacon ping open and the sausage fall off the top of the chicken breast?

Mine would have done.

SparklyGrandma Mon 10-Apr-17 20:37:33

Can we book with you for a Sunday dinner? You are making sure he gets enough vitamins and all the rest from the vegetables....

stillaliveandkicking Mon 10-Apr-17 20:28:26

Yes please.

Jalima1108 Mon 10-Apr-17 20:22:07

Except people show pictures of their cooking on FBgrin
Photos next time please phoenix

stillaliveandkicking Mon 10-Apr-17 20:20:15

Thread reminds me of Facebook grin

Jalima1108 Mon 10-Apr-17 20:19:12

He would have got leftovers here tonight grin

phoenix Mon 10-Apr-17 20:14:20

Oh you lot do make me smile!

He is actually a very good chap, and always appreciative of my efforts, perhaps I phrased my op badly!

(No one forced him to eat that last roast potato......grin)