I've missed your interesting and thought provoking posts GrannyA and wondered how you were these days. I'm so sorry to hear that life has been so challenging in every direction. It sounds like you have reached a point where you need to stop and take stock, not easy I know especially if you're by nature a do-er. It's easy for what you "do" to start to define who you are, and we are all so much more than what we do.
"You can't pour from an empty cup, take care of yourself first" I read this earlier today and it came back to mind when I saw your post just now. It can sound like a selfish attitude but in reality you just can't give what you haven't got within yourself, and you've been giving hugely to others. I hope you're able to find ways of recharging your batteries and that those who look to you to be their support will be able to allow you to have the space to do that. I know from experience that those who give lot's don't always find it easy to receive. Thinking of you
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