Very difficult for us to know if your gut feeling is correct or whether this is just one more rather shy girl. We met a grandson's girlfriend just lately, my daughter had said how lovely she was but confronted with us the poor girl hardly said a word!
I can just imagine the scenario where the family were all joking about your DS having the ring and him saying no way.
However, this obviously looks like a nice idea now he has found the right girl, can you remember on the three occasions when you met her if she was wearing all silver or gold jewellery, girls now usually go for silver. A word with your son mentioning this might get you out of parting with it if its gold but otherwise just hang things out saying you are looking, tell him to propose and they could talk over rings in general and he could mention that his grandmother's is available, what would she prefer. Let him sort it out.
Good Morning Saturday 20th April 2024