When oh when did the word "you" get replaced with "yourself" ? Also the waiters and waitresses that ask " what can I get for yourselves today". Did the younger folks change the use of English language while I had my back turned?
Bluebelle I once cared for a labouring woman who's DH dared to say We decided we don't want pain relief, even though the poor woman was screaming out for it. Made my blood boil
Current irritations (although there are many..): People being interviewed on TV who begin their explanation of something with "So..." and the phrase widely used nowadays: "D'you know what....."
My pet hate are those car stickers "Princess on Board"....it came out of the serious sticker "child on Board" which was to alert emergency services in case of an accident, as small babies/young children usually end up in the well of the car! Most of the time there is nobody in the car apart from the driver...how stupid can people be!
It's the first time I've posted (I tried once before but couldn't get it to work). I agree with all the above and especially with acanthus about So...grrr. Has anyone else noticed disappearing t's in the middle or end of a word? In reply to "can I get a coffee?" I'd be strongly tempted to say yes help yourself
THAT is one of my biggest gripes. That, and the inappropriate use of 'MYSELF'. I cringe but then, my friends call me the grammar police. Another gripe is hearing FORT FINK FREE and FURVER. A couple of the guys on The Apprentice this year, spoke in that manner and I personally wouldn't employ anyone in a p2p role who couldn't talk decent English. Dropping the letter 'g' is another no-no.
Having just done some work for an American company, my new pet linguistic hate is when they use the term 'reaching out to' for 'getting in contact with' e.g. 'Thank you for reaching out to us about your unpaid invoice'! Look out for it, it's relatively new and I guarantee it will set all your hackles rising
GrannyParker are you in the West Country? I am from Yorkshire & call everybody "love". I now live in Devon & love being called "my lovey" less keen on "my lover" as I'm not
inishowen my DD has started to say "my bad" Grr, daren't say anything to her though, just let it wash over me
"Thinking outside the box", "Blue Sky Thinking" etc although I suspect many of these have been overtaken by other expressions since I took Early Retirement in 2006
Jalima I wonder if ‘My colleagues and myself’ stems from worry about whether to use I or me? At school we were told to take the other person out and say the sentence to check.