To be honest ethel, to begin with you want to feel that the person is just moody, or difficult, or anti social or whatever. As a parent, you don’t want to believe that your child is this ill, but eventually you are forced to confront it, the truth is laid bare for you to see. I think we knew for several years, but medical help was only accepted for short bursts, and then the person seems to improve, and you think, whew, we’ve weathered that storm. But the storms keep coming, the behaviour becomes more bizarre and/ or dangerous, and finally you are hit with the unpalatable but inescapable truth. And then you have to act, in our case, to almost force a medical appointment, and eventually, you get a diagnosis. The truth. Please remember Ethel, that it is not just moods, but dangerous behaviour, that often finally alerts people to the truth, and in any case, just being moody wouldn’t even begin to describe what can, and believe me does, happen.