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What's the biggest you've ever seen?

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H1954 Tue 10-Sept-19 10:41:30

Sitting enjoying my morning tea and I heard a strange rustling sound. Thinking it may be a creature in the garden border, which is almost directly under the window, I cautiously moved to take a look. Nothing in the garden but the sound was being made by THE BIGGEST SPIDER I've ever seen as it scurried up the blackout lining on the curtains! It was huge, had knobbly knees, goggly eyes and was wearing clogs! ?

sue01 Wed 11-Sept-19 10:59:43

I'm terrified of them too.

Several years ago I won a competition, the first prize for which was a holiday in Oz.

Our base was a gorgeous house - on stilts - in Byron Bay.

When we arrived, a chap mowing the lawn let us in.

In the bathroom was the biggest spider I have ever seen in my life ! Truly as big as the palm of my hand.

DH went out and got the chap mowing the lawn... who removed the Huntsman Spider using a leather gauntlet and a spatula to knock it into a metal bucket.

As he left he suggested if I didn't like spiders - or snakes - not to look under the stilts of the house.

Nightmare !

Saggi Wed 11-Sept-19 11:00:44

The film ‘Arachnophobia’ has a lot to answer for!
Live and let live here. My husband has a weird phobia about them..... I just pick them up and put them outside. Not this time of year as you can kill house spiders by doing that!

Lupin Wed 11-Sept-19 11:03:00

I am not normally scared of spiders and can pick them up in a cloth and put them outside. I really don't want to kill them, BUT, I once lifted the lid on a compost bin to deal with the leaves within and I threw the lid and screamed. It was enormous. Retrieved the lid, put it back on and didn't go near the bin for three years. When I had to the spider had moved house.

Daffydilly Wed 11-Sept-19 11:04:51

Back when my boys were small, we were adopted by a huge spider called Boris. Most nights he'd wander out from behind the TV or bookcase, have a mosey around, then wander back. He was so big he was less scary than some of the smaller, scuttly ones.

At the same time, my boys had a Tomy train set which was kept under the stairs in a big holdall. One morning we found Boris squished under the bag, quite dead. The boys were heartbroken, a clear case of being in the wrong place at the wrong time.

Poor Boris, RIP.

Guineagirl Wed 11-Sept-19 11:06:22

I was lured by the title lol. I seem to get these weird pin head spiders with very long legs they seem to build a one line web and just sit there. The hoover gets them just nicely though but sometimes they struggle ugh.

A few years ago we had a door moved and I never saw it but my daughter killed it she said it was as big as a coaster, it must of come in overnight whilst any holes weren’t blocked yet.

mokryna Wed 11-Sept-19 11:07:54

My blood runs cold when I see one but I was ok reading your comments until some of you posted PHOTOS! How could you! I found one in the car the other day, I think it got in with my DGS's camping bag when collected him from his scouts' week. Well that was in July, since then I have travelled to England, Scotland and back 4,200 klms before it showed its self. Vacuumed the car all over but didn't see it. Sprayed the car and left it over night. What do I see when I opened the door the following morning, it on my seat! Young postman arrived at that moment, asked him to help remove it, sure said he laughing. Didn't he jump when it moved!

Laurensnan Wed 11-Sept-19 11:11:45

I had a few ones running across the living room over the past 3 weeks. I'm petrified of them. Hubby gets the spider and takes it down the garden. I'm not sure if it's the same one getting back in. I've read that September is bad differ wise as the male spiders are hunting for a mate. I hoping it'll calm down soon as I'm a nervous wreck ?

jacalpad Wed 11-Sept-19 11:14:16

I am terrified of the horrible things. I can cope with almost any other insects, large or small!
The family never let me forget the day I found an ENORMOUS spider on my dressing gown in the bathroom. I ran past it, shut the door and wedged a towel along the bottom of the door (so it could not leave the bathroom). I then rang my husband, in a state of hysteria, and begged him to come home and ‘get’ it. He was very kind and was home within five minutes - he works very close by. Even he was horrified by the size of the creature, but he did put it outside. I feel very silly, but I really am terrified of them. blush shock

Laurensnan Wed 11-Sept-19 11:14:29

Spider wise I meant not differ .

WOODMOUSE49 Wed 11-Sept-19 11:21:30

Have to post again.

Last night we left some glasses by the sink. I've just washed them.

I pick glasses up by fingers inside, thumb outside. Felt something on my finger! Quickly put glass in the water and out floated a monster of a spider.

Sitting now with strong coffee, recovering. Spider got washed down the plug hole.

monkeebeat Wed 11-Sept-19 11:24:59

The only good spider is a dead spider.
Its only saving grace is it is a delicious part of the food chain for some other animal.
What good does it do? Even catches and kills our pollinators!

Annaram1 Wed 11-Sept-19 11:35:55

I have lived in several countries including South Africa where they have the big rain spiders. I have also spent time in the West Indies where I saw pink kneed tarantulas. I also spent 3 days in the Equidorean Amazon rainforest and saw a small spider on the outside of the window mesh in my cabin, which I knocked off from the inside. Otherwise I saw no spiders there. My son went to Peru and took a guided night time hike in the rainforest and the light on his headband shone on hundreds of little sparkly lights everywhere he looked. These were the eyes of spiders.
But the biggest spiders I have ever seen were in Southampton where I lived for a time in an old flat. The loo was outside and the first time I visited it and closed the door I was faced with an enormous spider sitting on the door just looking at me. I never dared close the door again. I think it was a cardinal spider.
In my present 215 year old flat I get quite a lot of spiders, mostly daddy long legs and other small ones. I can deal with these but the other night I had an enormous monster in my hall., coming from the kitchen. I ran for my biggest spider jar and when I got back she was gone. Spent a long time in the kitchen looking for it without success. An hour later when I was going to bed thinking I would never dare sleep I spotted it against a skirting board and was able to catch it and released it again next morning. My neighbour told me she had had a huge spider in her sitting room next evening. It was probably the same one. I am petrified another might come in.

Juliet27 Wed 11-Sept-19 11:46:12

One was hiding in my rubber glove once. That was a nasty shock as I put it on.

Maggiemaybe Wed 11-Sept-19 11:47:08

I’d never kill a spider, not a non-venomous one anyway. They’re a force for good, keeping down the fly, flea, moth population in our homes, and cockroaches and mosquitoes in warmer countries.

Not that I can go near enough to a really big one to catch it. I just keep well back, shouting instructions to DH not to hurt it. smile

BeenBizzy Wed 11-Sept-19 11:49:26

Can't actually kill myself....... But this year has been awful. My dear husband who I lost a year ago always
removed these creatures...screaming no longer helps ..... However I thank goodness for my stick vac cleaner.
I can suck them up from a distance give them a spin and drop outside.
I have had 6 whoppers this autumn...... Have been wondering if they are returning for another go.

sunseeker Wed 11-Sept-19 11:50:03

Not posted on this thread before as I misread the title as "Whats the biggest youve ever BEEN" I refuse to answer that question!

Visiting family in Australia some time ago I got chatting to one of their friends who asked in a joking way why I would live in a country where it was so cold - I asked him why he would live in a country with spiders that can kill you!

I really don't like spiders at all - now I am on my own I have to be a bit braver and despite spraying around doors and windows with spider repellent still find them around the house. One night my alarm went off - I started down the stairs - baseball bat over my shoulder (no idea what I was going to do) only to find a very large spider had crawled across the motion sensor! That spider was sent to the spider after life!

sazz1 Wed 11-Sept-19 12:01:08

I never was scared of spiders but one fell out of my sister's loft she was clearing. I picked it up to put it outside and it bit my finger 3 times
Felt like a wasp sting. Nothing bad happened, over the course of a week the skin went hard and then peeled off. Don't pick them up anymore though.

NanaNeets Wed 11-Sept-19 12:07:01

Torch the garden!!! It’s his home now... burn it ?

4allweknow Wed 11-Sept-19 12:11:22

I don't mind the ones with big long legs. It's the ones, quite small but can run faster than Usan Bolt that I don't like.

Craftycat Wed 11-Sept-19 12:12:20

Spiders in UK are not going to harm you!!
I used to be terrified of them but got it cured in about 15 mins by an NLP practitioner.
I love them now.

Newatthis Wed 11-Sept-19 12:18:27

We seem to be getting more than usual. My husband said that this time of year the very large males are looking for females and therefore are on a hunt. they're quite scary, even for someone like me who is not that afraid of spiders.

Jan66 Wed 11-Sept-19 12:19:13

Our youngest daughter alerted us to a massive one above the doorframe in the kitchen. My husband calls all the really big spiders 'Sir'. I tend to call them Sydney or Boris. It is currently mating season for spiders so we will no doubt see plenty of them in our homes.

TrendyNannie6 Wed 11-Sept-19 12:23:34

So disappointed when I realised you were talking about spiders hehe

Avor2 Wed 11-Sept-19 12:41:28

Our pet spider is Eric he has great fun being chased by the dogs Monty and Smithy, they never catch him.

nannypiano Wed 11-Sept-19 13:18:06

I reached for my dressing gown one morning, hanging on the bathroom door. The biggest spider I have ever seen ran down it and fell to the ground. It was so big it made a thump noise as it hit the floor, even though it fell on carpet. I chased it, but it ran under my bed. I have never stopped looking for it. The thought of it running over me when I'm asleep terrifies me.