Thank you everyone for replying. As ad and gc are not here and have no contact for a couple of days I feel some what better.
I'm sure it will all pan out in the end. I've raised my girls and helped with numerous nephews and nieces before the grand kids . Never been any trouble so just makes it more hurtful, coming to conclusion the more you do for some people the less it's good enough for them.
Last weekend, in Rutland, the first statue in Britain of the late Elizabeth II was unveiled.