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Covid italian mother-in-law

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Naty Fri 13-Mar-20 03:48:15

Ignore the title. It's just a way for me to get people to read this...

Hi everyone! I posted about my italian in-laws coming over unannounced and asked them to stop kissing my baby.

I was both torn apart and supported on these threads...now I'm back to update you all yet again to implore you all to take things very seriously.

I am now in Canada with our baby for a planned trip, booked before the rampant outbreak. I will not be flying back until things settle.

Please please take heed: the situation in Italy is dire.

Socially isolate as much as possible. Don't mix with people. Wash your hands. Stay inside.

All of our friends and family in Italy are fine, but they cannot go outside or visit people. They cannot travel. They cannot see their grandkids. Grandchildren can be asymptomatic carriers and kill their grandparents. 2 week incubation period. Old people are more susceptible. There arent enough respirators for everyone and the doctors have to choose between who to save and who not to. This is NOT fake news! Please, I implore you to socially distance yourselves.

Canada has announced 3 weeks off of school, but they are saying it's an extension of our march break so that people don't panic.

Please stay safe!

Callistemon Sat 14-Mar-20 09:34:33

Maggiemaybe, yes as younsaid.

792 cases in a population of 5,000 would be catastrophic, you stated per million.

It will rise, inevitably.

However, on average 17,000 people (loved ones) die of flu annually in the UK although the 2018/19 figure was very low.

Callistemon Sat 14-Mar-20 09:35:04

Just England, sorry, not including the RUK.

ValerieF Sat 14-Mar-20 10:46:15

I would think most people ARE doing whatever they can to stay safe but without panicking? I don't know of anyone who isn't taking it seriously though? If you are in a position to sit at home and shut your door on the world then great ..but lots of people are not. What would happen if all members of the police force, fire service, doctors, nurses, paramedics, care givers shop keepers all locked themselves away right now? Many people could then die from much more than the virus.

I am fed up with people saying exactly what the Government should or should not be doing. Nobody knows how long this is likely to go on for starters. Yes it will probably get worse before it gets better but the most anyone can do is try to carry on as normal but be extra careful and follow the guidelines set out.

Lucca Sat 14-Mar-20 13:38:01

I can’t do the link but I read an article in the independent online about dr Christian Jessen (a tv doctor). Who said the Italians were using this as an excuse not to work and its just a bad cold. I felt sick reading it. How can anyone come out with things like that ?

Summerlove Sat 14-Mar-20 15:28:32

I know many people who are not taking this seriously. Who are sitting around saying it’s just the flu. More people die of the regular flu than this. So to say that no one is not taking this seriously is not at all the case.

Look at all the People who still went to Italy a few weeks ago. Look at people who are still planning to take all of their vacations. People are not all taking this seriously.

giulia Sat 14-Mar-20 15:52:34

Lucca WHAT! I just cannot believe that a doctor could say anything so stupid and ignorant.

M0nica Sat 14-Mar-20 15:58:28

Some people are not taking it seriously- but that happens over everything. Others are just frozen like rabbits in the headlights of a car and are so scared they are unable to act. But from everything I have seen and read, most people are taking it seriously.

I have actually been part of an online discussion this afternoon by a group I am a member of and we have decided to cancel all our activities for the foreseeable future.

Hetty58 Sat 14-Mar-20 16:34:12

It seems inevitable that there will be many unnecessary deaths due to their health services being overwhelmed. In a report from the Lancet:

'Intensive care specialists are already considering denying life-saving care to the sickest and giving priority to those patients most likely to survive when deciding who to provide ventilation to. This attitude has already been criticised by the current President of the Italian Comitato di Bioetica who, in a recent declaration to lay press stated that the Constitution recognises the right of every individual to receive all necessary health care. They might not recognise that the reality is that intensive care wards are overflowing with patients and that COVID-19 is not a benign disease. Our doctors and nurses are modern heroes in an unexpected war against a difficult enemy. In the near future, they will have no choice. They will have to follow the same rules that health-care workers are left with in conflict and disaster zones.'

www.thelancet.com/journals/lancet/article/PIIS0140-6736(20)30627-9/fulltext

Lucca Sat 14-Mar-20 19:29:17

Giulia, Google it it makes horrible reading.

Lucca Sat 14-Mar-20 19:30:07

However I love the videos of quarantined Italians all over the country singing from their balconies

pinkquartz Sat 14-Mar-20 23:29:29

*More people die of the regular flu than this

Summerlove

How can you say that? It is not over therefore we do NOT know how many will die.

Summerlove Sun 15-Mar-20 00:02:25

Pinkquartz, I was quoting other people who feel that all the panic is “fear mongering” and “media hype”.

I’m sorry if that wasn’t clear.

I take this very seriously. I know many people who do not

pinkquartz Sun 22-Mar-20 16:00:59

Oh good to hear I did read it wrong?

Why aren't our borders shut...they Govt are not giving clear messages
If the Govt sounded serious and put measures like closed borders into action maybe more people will listen and take it seriously.
I took it seriously very quickly......and am very appalled by lack of Govt action

tickingbird Sun 22-Mar-20 16:16:38

I took it seriously very quickly and was pooh poohed by others and some of my own family. They realise now.

GagaJo Sun 22-Mar-20 16:30:49

I also knew an apocalypse was coming. We only had to watch China to see that.

There was too much ignorance here for far too long. A lot of it by our government who bear most of the responsibility for the deaths. They should have begun preparing in January.

Now we have doctors and nurses in standard medical clothing when they should be in hazmat suits. We are short on ventilators.

Blood on their hands.

Callistemon Sun 22-Mar-20 16:44:29

Gaga

Whoever wished this on the world has ^blood on their hands

Or a hidden agenda.

Callistemon Sun 22-Mar-20 16:45:04

Oh was that China?

Summerlove Mon 23-Mar-20 13:41:48

You really think is all a Chinese plot?!

Namsnanny Mon 23-Mar-20 14:12:55

At this moment I do not think it is a plot by China, but why the incredulity summerlove?

Summerlove Mon 23-Mar-20 14:17:22

Why?

Because I don’t live In a world where I fear that every other country/political party is out to get me. I will happily eat my words if proven wrong though.

MawB Mon 23-Mar-20 14:25:47

There was too much ignorance here for far too long. A lot of it by our government who bear most of the responsibility for the deaths. They should have begun preparing in January^.
Now we have doctors and nurses in standard medical clothing when they should be in hazmat suits. We are short on ventilators
Blood on their hands
I do not think inflammatory language like this is particularly helpful.
Hindsight is a wonderful thing.

Exactly when did you set off to work abroad, Gagajo?
And when did you decide to leave your part of Switzerland, which I think you said was a hop, skip and a jump from the border with N Italy? So that you could cuddle your DGS including in his sleep?
Let’s not be too self- righteous or too inclined to some sort of conspiracy theory.

tickingbird Mon 23-Mar-20 14:28:34

Go watch this. They'll wish they'd listened now.https://youtu.be/vukHzn2juxw

Callistemon Mon 23-Mar-20 14:41:20

You really think is all a Chinese plot?!
No

Callistemon Mon 23-Mar-20 14:42:16

MawB so well said.
Please, please, GagaJo, can you not read your own contradictory posts?

GagaJo Mon 23-Mar-20 16:13:55

Oh for gods sake MawB. It was obvious it was coming. Anyone that thought we were immune was incredibly ignorant.

Yes, I was at work. I need a salary. I have a mortgage and bills.