Polnan, you need to change your attitude!
I lost my loved one on 11th March (already I was isolating) no funeral, no hugs or comfort. An awful lot of crying. I will manage though. I know I'm strong.
We can still get out for a long walk every day. I'd thoroughly recommend that, for those who are able. Time spent outside, in a garden, on a balcony, is nearly as good.
Be very kind to yourself and enjoy treats. Do one thing every day for 'progress', garden, clean a window, cook, clean, fix or make something, anything really, just for an hour.
Make plans and lists for 'after' and view this as a phase (that's all it is), a delay until life returns to some version of normality.
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