Pippa22, your post brought tears to my eyes, that’s so sad, and must have been bad for such drastic action to be taken. I was adopted....and although I had a good life in the sense of being well looked after, I didn’t feel particularly loved by my mum, and my dad was oblivious really. I was lucky, and able to have my children very easily, but my husband and I discussed whether we would adopt if we couldn’t have our own. I just couldn’t have personally, but am glad not all people feel like that. twiglet77, it must be heartbreaking for you, but I can’t see how you can advise...just be there when they want to talk. As someone else said, it may be if they relax, and stop making it the focus of their lives, your DIL may naturally conceive. Hope so, and all the best?
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