I've been on GN for a while but this is my first post ....
After many years with my partner I'm starting to question if he is worth it? I'm in my late 50s and he is slightly younger. I have GC and he has school age children who stay with us regularly.
I have come to realise how controlling he is (even in the bedroom!) despite calling me a 'control freak'. There are many instances where things crop up that we have apparently discussed that I dont remember and he has suggested I see a doctor about my memory problem. I spoke to close friends about this and they said my memory is fine!
Everything goes along well providing he is happy and I don't confront him about things and I'm starting to wonder if I should end it as I'm having doubts as to his intentions.
I would really appreciate thoughts from those who dont know either of us at all if that makes sense?
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