Just like annie55w, I got out of a similar relationship 5 years ago and have not looked back since. I also owned my own home and was a little worried at first that he may have had some claim on it, but he didn't as I paid all the bills and there was no mortgage on it.
I'm so much happier on my own and will never look for another man in my life again. There may be a lot of good ones out there, but my experience of men is that a lot of them are selfish, controlling little boys.
Sorry to be so negative to all of you out there with happy relationships, but I am only commenting on my own experience.
I have a great life now. A lovely son and daughter and two beautiful grandchildren, plus lots of friends that have kept me sane during the past 6 months of Covid-19 restrictions.
Have any of you got all electric cars? Pros and cons please.