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Glasgo Tue 09-Feb-21 20:04:10

What did you want to be when you ‘grew up’? I loved watching Fred Astaire in musical films and Sunday Night at the London Paladium. I was captured by the Tiller Girls, a dancing troupe, so a high kicking dancing girl was my aim. As a young girl I practiced kicking my height endlessly!

No I did not achieve my aim but I still love to dance.

Kalu Wed 10-Feb-21 00:43:53

In Forensic Pathology.

FannyCornforth Wed 10-Feb-21 03:50:51

Marydoll and Galaxy - your sleuthing duo has made me smile.
M0nica - I wanted to be a politician too. Foreign Secretary in particular, for some daft reason, lord knows why, my geography has always been appalling!
I also wanted to be a fashion illustrator.

cavewoman Wed 10-Feb-21 04:00:33

Donny Osmonds wife (or David Cassidy)

That was before I fell for David Bowie.

Failing that I would be a pop singer.

Grandma11 Wed 10-Feb-21 05:12:02

As a Child, l wanted to be a Vet, but my Parents made it very clear from an early age that they would not be funding me to go off to university and that l would have to get a paid Job after leaving school to support myself. So being a Vet quickly changed into being a Midwife after watching my Cat give birth to Kittens when l was Ten!
To be a Midwife required General Nurse training first, so upon leaving school that was my Aim. Along the way my plans changed slightly, and l ended up as an Occupational Health Nurse working part time for Sainsbury’s!
I was Married and had a young Daughter of my own by then, and it was a further 8 years until l returned to the NHS to follow the path of Mental Health Nursing, left at the end of it as was expected back then, and started applying for jobs in the Community, which l loved, but worked more in the Private sector as most of the Mental health Hospitals had started to Close down in favour of Care in the Community, so that’s where l stayed.

kittylester Wed 10-Feb-21 07:44:12

I wanted to be a nanny but it wasn't good enough for my mother so I worked in a bank and learnt shorthand and typing.

Then I got married and had 5 children.

harrigran Wed 10-Feb-21 09:09:55

I always wanted to be a nurse and to join the QAs, I did become a nurse but met DH so didn't apply to the QAs.

Grandma70s Wed 10-Feb-21 09:21:51

I’m another who didn’t make it as a ballerina. I was reasonably good at it, but not in the ballerina class. I wouldn’t have got a place at the Royal Ballet School. I was the right shape, but rather too tall.

It’s so strange to watch my granddaughter going through exactly the same thing. She’s only 8, but can frequently be found dancing her version of Swan Lake.

Foxglove77 Wed 10-Feb-21 09:31:03

I wanted to be a jockey, loved horses but was scared of them!

Glasgo Wed 10-Feb-21 11:05:31

So many different choices here and how our parents expectations influence them.
I agree with Hetty58 I have still to grow up.

Gran32 Wed 10-Feb-21 11:25:06

I wanted to be an actress and singer!

MrsAllboys Wed 10-Feb-21 11:32:51

Between 7 and 12 I wanted to be a vet. Parents told me I'd have to work at my maths (loathed the subject) so I gave up the idea. Then in midteens I, like Monica, wanted to the the first woman Prime Minister. Later, in my early twenties I wanted to be Mrs Levin...ie marry Bernard Levin on whom I had a huge crush!!grin

kircubbin2000 Wed 10-Feb-21 11:37:00

I wanted to be a chemist and have a shop like my friends dad had. All the lovely old bottles .However when I started secondary school my friends persuaded me to do cookery and as we had no guidance I never got a chance to study science.

Bodach Wed 10-Feb-21 11:38:56

Bodach

A fighter pilot.

Which reminds me of the old (but very true) joke:
Child: “When I grow up, I want to be a fighter pilot.”
Mother: “Make up your mind: you can’t do both.”

MiniMoon Wed 10-Feb-21 11:42:06

In wanted to be an Air Hostess, but that was never going to happen. I wasn't tall or glamorous enough.
I went to college to learn shorthand and typing but was useless at shorthand.
Eventually trained as a psychiatric nurse, specialising in the psychiatry of old age. A career that lasted until I retired.

Grandmabatty Wed 10-Feb-21 15:37:33

I wanted to be a teacher when I was quite small. I used to boss other children around dreadfully and my dolls. I set up my bedroom as a classroom. Then I wanted to be a writer. I loved words and reading and still do. Then an air hostess but I was too short and curvy for that one. I also wanted to be an actress. However I knew I didn't have what it took so most of my life I acted in amateur dramatics. That scratched that particular itch. I became a librarian and enjoyed that for a number of years then finally went into teaching. So the only unsuccessful career path was air hostess.

soop Wed 10-Feb-21 16:03:24

A dress designer.

Jillyjosie Wed 10-Feb-21 16:19:57

A show jumper because I was mad about horses and read the Jill books over and over and Pat Smythe pony stories. She was a famous show jumper who represented Britain at the Olympics post war. Otherwise I wanted to be a vet.

NannyC2 Wed 10-Feb-21 16:32:28

An artist. My father was extremely good and I started drawing when I was quite young. I have done water colour paintings in later years. I also had a strong yearning to write and did a comprehensive course with the London Writing School which was very interesting and led to me having things published.
However, as a job, I ended up in the NHS!

ayse Wed 10-Feb-21 16:35:48

An archaeologist. I loathed Latin at school so I wasn’t able to go to university. Life took a different turn and only recently did I complete an OU History degree.

Glasgo Wed 10-Feb-21 20:29:31

Kircubbin my uncle was a pharmacist and ran his own chemist shop. An old fashioned one with dark wood cabinets and my aunt ran the perfumery, cosmetic and fancy goods side of the business. A child’s paradise when I holidayed there a couple of times a year.

Grandmabatty great you achieved many of your childhood aims. If I had my life to live over I would be a psychologist. Although I did train to be a counsellor and teach counselling at college. Very rewarding.

Ayse, an embarrassing admission, I once achieved 4% in Latin. My head was to full of nonsense. Still remember amo, amas, amat I think!