Nannymagic I know exactly what you mean, I want to be that grandparent too! I've found it's the simple things that my grandchildren seem to love and remember, so a few things we've done: played hunt the thimble (warm, warm, cold), guessing which hand a tiny toy is in, going through my costume jewellery and trying it all on, playing card games like "pairs", crafting, just simple things like glitter glue, gems, googly eyes to stick on card (girls in particular love glitter and gems), baking simple things like fairy cakes. I ask Alexa to play childrens action songs and we dance around to them like crazy, go in the garden and blow bubbles, hunt for bugs, plant seeds, picnic lunches on a blanket in the garden or in the living room if it rains. What will be remembered is the 100% love and attention you give them. Hope this helps.