I see you've had great responses but I have to chime in because you sound so much like me :-)
First let me say you sound like an awesome grandma. I recently asked for help on this forum to deal with grief over my grandchildren's upcoming move across the country ( I live in USA )
I too have had much loss as a child and wasn't mothered. I've come to find through lots of therapy that this leaves us with abandonment issues which have escalated for me.I worry about losing my place as grandma
I think this may be what you worry about. That some how the grandkids won't love you.
I think your grandkids love you a bunch!
You sound like a hard grandma not to love :-) Just keep being you!
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