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What age do you think you were most happy? Or maybe you feel it’s not come yet?

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DiscoDancer1975 Mon 30-Aug-21 12:03:35

Our son asked all of us this the other day. Apparently, a study has shown that 67 is the ‘ magical’ age where we are most happy.

I couldn’t really answer. There’s been good and bad times all through our ages. However, 67 is a few years off for me and hubby at the moment, but those of you who are 67...what do you think? Is it all rubbish, or could there be something in it?

Over to you....

Sawsage2 Wed 01-Sept-21 16:32:36

Age 25 when I had my first longed for child. Ups and downs throughout my life though. 70 now.

DiscoDancer1975 Wed 01-Sept-21 16:50:10

Nannan2

15- 20.Definitely.and im a long way off 67 so thats depressing?Did he say HOW they came to that conclusion, that its so late in life? Because i doubt its just because they no longer have to work, as that could mean less income and more austerity for a lot of folk.?

No, my son often comes up with these little gems. I wonder he has time to work! I think it was an average. To be honest...reading all your responses, I can see how you would get to 67. Some of you were the really young years, which surprised me, others the other end.

I’m still reading...

DiscoDancer1975 Wed 01-Sept-21 16:57:17

Gabrielle56

25! I'd just had my first DS. And I thought I was the happiest girl in the world with a lovely home fantastic handsome DH with good job, and the pièce de résistance-my beautiful new baby!!!
After that things just got from bad to worse.im 65 now and am disappointed every day-because I've yet again woken up.

I’m sad to read that Gabrielle. Maybe you could start your own thread about that. There are so many lovely people on here who could offer advice/ help, I’m sure. ?

DiscoDancer1975 Wed 01-Sept-21 16:59:14

grannyactivist

Drat it, I’ll be 68 tomorrow, so today is my last day as a 67 year old - I wish I’d known sooner this was my happiest year. ??

Actually I’m generally content, but I would say that my life has improved with each decade from my thirties onwards. As I approach my 70s I’m more aware that each moment is to be treasured and I ensure I spend as much time with my grandchildren as possible. I would like them to remember that they had a granny who loved them. I never really knew my paternal grandmother and my nana (mum’s mum) died when I was 19. I really hope I get to be around for another ten years so that the youngest has some memory of me.

It was just an average. Your personal age may not have happened yet ??

DiscoDancer1975 Wed 01-Sept-21 17:00:33

Love reading all your answers, and thank you for them. Certainly gives me a lot to look forward to ?

effalump Wed 01-Sept-21 17:26:36

My thirties. I'm afraid it's all been downhill since then. sad

Thisismyname1953 Wed 01-Sept-21 18:20:32

I was 67 up until a few months ago and I do think I was quite happy . I’m introverted and was glad that because of covid I didn’t have to see or speak to many people. My happiness took a dip exactly halfway into my 67th year because I caught covid and was hospitalised for 8 nights .
My recovery went well and I continue to be happy enoughsmile

Neilspurgeon0 Wed 01-Sept-21 20:13:47

Bugger 67, I was well worn out by then, definitely 24 for me a fantastic year

Seabreeze Wed 01-Sept-21 21:48:28

I’m 75 and still waiting ! Long story. Too long to post on here.
3 adorable grandchildren, happy when I see them which is not often sadly.

NanKate Wed 01-Sept-21 21:49:43

During the mid to late 60s, loved the clothes, music, parties, no responsibilities. I’m 74 now and often think back to those carefree days. ???

Jillybird Wed 01-Sept-21 22:26:31

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Elvis58 Thu 02-Sept-21 08:20:45

Now every day is a bonus but retirement has been great so far!

Nanascats Thu 02-Sept-21 11:13:46

I am nearly 80 and loved being 35. Life was extremely busy but I had the energy for everything

DiscoDancer1975 Thu 02-Sept-21 11:35:27

I’m still reading...and enjoying your responses.

Battersea1971 Thu 02-Sept-21 23:06:39

35 was a good age. Children getting older, more money, house, holidays, plenty of friends. You still have your looks and figure.

Battersea1971 Thu 02-Sept-21 23:07:43

I forgot to say that life was busy and I had plenty of energy.

Margiknot Fri 03-Sept-21 16:18:17

My late parents and their similar aged friend, discussed this a few years ago and said their late 60s/ early 70s - when both were retired but fit enough to enjoy their retirement, travel and GC.
I am not quite 67- but it’s nice to think my best years might be around the corner!

Neen Sat 04-Sept-21 08:12:05

Definitely now . I am 54 with 5 Grandchildren 12 and under and have two daughters in their 30s. I've finally learnt who I am and have healthy boundaries and can say no thank you without justifying myself.
I love walks and a bit of travel and friends.
I attend art classes sometimes, well, occasionally and altho I don't have much money, I don't need much. To enjoy my company with a book or the radio and a little gardening. Bliss.
I have my grandchildren on a rota basis one at a time and love life. Finally !!