Hi I wonder if someone can tell me if I'm unreasonable, I know I can be but on this occasion I don't think I am. I am going mad with what I see as complete selfishness from both children who are in their 30's have successful lives jobs home young children.
So I live abroad with my second wife who works hard and has restricted holidays. She knows I miss my kids and grand children a huge amount, not just miss it deeply hurts especially when because of covid we have only seen them for a long weekend in nearly two years.
So my upset. My wife a teacher gets some time off, for a week, she's a teacher so we can't pick and choose. She insists for me we use this time to travel to the uk and she will work 25 reports etc etc whilst away. So kids say they are busy but son says I can come to his five bedroomed house on Friday but have to get out Monday as his wife has friends coming, a couple, remember five bed house. Daughter says we can't come until Thursday night as her mother is there looking after grandchildren which she does every week. So I have to go into a BnB with my wife for four days, its dark by four, cold rain forecast. This is the fourth day in two years to see them, only the second visit because of covid, its costing us a fortune and my wife who is wonderful is having to spend her time in a bnb waiting for my children to admit us. To be honest I'm ready to give up on them
Parents-in-Law. What do/did you call them?