My daughter is 30 this year , she has two daughter's aged 12 and 10 and a 5 year old boy . She's a single Mum, they live fairly close and I'm the only grandparent involved in their lives . They've always spent alot of time with me at my house, but recently they seem to want to be here all the time . The 10 year old has been here since April and the eldest since July. I don't have my grandson as much because of my arthritis and he's full of energy . My concern is my daughter doesn't show any interest in them and is not very loving . She seems depressed around the children, lying in bed all day charting to her friends on the phone. But perks up if she has a date with her boyfriend, we used to be really close and I could talk to her, but the last couple of months if I say anything, she's very rude to me . I know she's stressed waiting to be housed by the council as her landlord is selling up, the house is too small for them all anyway . My husband ( her stepdad) has always been good with her and is the children's only granddad , they all love him and have a great relationship with him. When I ring to ask if she's OK, I can hear my grandson shouting , can I come to your house nanny . I'm so stressed over it all , my own mother has been diagnosed with myeloma and my father in law ( 93) has kidney failure . My husband is retiring this week and wants us to travel more , we've now booked a cruise for next month and although my granddaughter's will be at school , they got upset at the thought of going home and not seeing me for 2 weeks . Sorry for the long post but I'm desperate for advice , thank you
