Chewbacca
^So what your saying is: you just want a thread full of nodding dogs and the people who don’t have a problem with snakes can go and do one.^
Absolutely right Meryl; it's policing threads, dictating what can be discussed and within strict parameters, allowing no ability for threads to widen or meander as conversations and discussions normally do. It's that rigidity of thinking that lead to the recent furore.
Yes, I agree with you. Whatever the forum, threads always meander. If they didn't, it would become a circular discussion, of a couple of people, all agreeing with each other. Lively discussion would be killed, and it would be a total bore.?
"Forum monitors" are another bore - if it's not abusive, or against the rules. leave it be.
As for men, well, it would be nice if they did join. They bring a different perspective, sometimes, which can be interesting.
Perhaps the name "Gransnet" puts some males off - but I'm not sure what else you could call it.?